Some guys seem to have it all: money, power and women! If you are in the “not so much” crowd it is easy to wander how those guys who seem to have it all do it. Sometimes the geekiest guy will have a “hot model” girlfriend. One thing you should know is that women are uniquely designed. There are certain traits, overall, that women like in their men. If you began to understand this affect then you will up your chances on getting the girl of your dreams.
So, let’s get to the point.
Women are highly emotional by design. It is in their nature. They want to belong, feel wanted, admired and desired. You may be surprised, but personality plays an important role in determining the law of attraction for women. Even though looks matter, to a certain extent, women would rather have much, much more.
You probably have noticed a guy that isn’t so great looking but he has a beautiful wife or girlfriend. And you want this for yourself too. You want to understand how you can have your choice of women.
If you want to be the guy that girls like you have to understand the way women think. This is not rocket science, but it will take some time and patience on your part to master how women think.
The key word is emotion. Understand that women are not a species from another planet. Even though they are emotional they know that life is not a fairy tale.
Step 1 – Gather Information
Read up on the way women think as well as their body language. Write down some of the most interesting things that you can use to your advantage.
Step 2 – Practice Your Approach
Practice how you want to approach a woman in the mirror. It may sound stupid but this will make you feel more comfortable and confident when you are in a real world situation with a woman.
Watch yourself in the mirror with your concentration on gestures, the way you carry yourself and anything else you feel you need to work on. Women like a man with confidence. Even if you’re still have some nervous reactions, it’s understandable. Just work on it.
But make sure you don’t over-practice, though, as you don’t want it to come off to the woman as acting.
Step 3 – Make Her Smile
Everyone has a sense of humor. Think about the things that you find funny. This doesn’t mean you have to come with a comedy act. Some of the smallest things can make a woman smile or laugh. Think about how you can incorporate humor into the situation once you approach or go on a date with a woman.
Step 4 – Her Body Language
Understand a woman’s body language. A woman sends signals with the way she holds herself and facial expressions. You can use this to your advantage. For example, if a woman smiles at you or make eye contact with you at a club, this may be a sure fire sign she wants you to approach her. Learn basic subconscious signals that a woman sends out.
Step 5 – Start The Conversation
Put everything you have learned to the test. Now that you understand the way a woman think and her body language, go out to a comfortable setting. If you see a woman that you feel you may want to approach, go up to her and get the conversation going. Who knows what will happen!